Forget the naysayers. Doubt your doubts. Drown out the voices offering unsolicited advice. Discard false boundaries. Ignore the advocates of mediocrity. Embrace the butterflies in your stomach. Trust your vision. It's YOUR life and you are the only one who gets to decide. Go.

  I’m tired. Tired of watching the madness around me. Tired of watching grown women acting like children. Tired of atrocious behavior being rewarded. Tired of the ubiquitous images of unattainable perfection. Tired of the stereotypes being perpetuated and subsequently adopted without question. Tired of the forced baby voices. Tired of the overall dumbing down [...]

  Excerpt from "I Haven't Found Myself...but I'm Still Looking

Don't believe it. It's crap. Absolute crap. Let me save you the trouble. Nobody holds the key to you being "complete"...whatever that means. The desire to use another person to fill something in you that is missing is dangerous behavior. You are only setting yourself up for disappointment. Note: if you're into the whole dominatrix [...] This is a follow up to a post I wrote for Positively Positive. This is my response to a little backlash I received on Facebook. Find out what all the hoopla was about.  And just for the record...I'm not one bit sorry for pissing a couple of people off. Their energy had little [...]

Affirmations are a highly popular tool in the self-help world. However, affirmations alone, don't work. Simply saying wise words without making an effort to change underlying belief and behavior isn't personal development. It's delusion. And quite frankly, it's laziness. It's the equivalent of taking the magic pill for weight loss without diet modification or exercise. [...]

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I just finished watching another inspiring LifeClass on OWN. Joel Osteen and Oprah discussed the power of your words and how that energy is carried out into what you manifest.  I have always believed your words to be a declaration of what you manifest - intended or not Over the years, I've become very conscious of what [...]

Yesterday we lost an icon. At 48 years of age, songbird, Whitney Houston, passed into the next dimension.  Like many others, I associate her music with a million memories. I remember passionately singing “Saving All My Love for You” into my hairbrush, wishing desperately that my cheap tape recording would resemble her perfect pitch.  (It [...]